We wish you the greatest of memories this holiday and pray that you
take a moment to remember the Reason for the Season!
(and Mother and Father, too!)
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This is yet another book that was NOT on my Fall Into Reading 2008 book list. However, when I saw it in the book store, I knew I had to read it. I have not read Dr. Leman's other books on birth order (including The Birth Order book), but I remember my parents reading it when we were young and hearing all about it. As a firstborn, I was so excited to learn that Dr. Leman had now written a book, specifically for me. Here is an excerpt from the cover:
"You're driven. You have big plans and dreams. You demand a lot out of
yourself, and it pays off. As a natural mover and shaker of the world, you were
at the top of your class. You're the benchmark setter and the award winner,
you've always done what's expected of you--and yes, you're the one who got in
trouble for what your younger sibling did. Being firstborn comes with a high
price sometimes, and no one is harder on you than you. But it doesn't have to be
that way. You can learn to use your firstborn skills to your best advantage in
every area of life. And you'll still end up as the high achiever you were born
to be."
Like I said...it was written just for me. How refreshing it was to discover that my need to have things done "my way" is not some maladjusted illness or a reason to submit to therapy, but simply a result of my birth order. Whew! Dr. Leman gives great insight into the role of a firstborn--chronological or functional (which he explains in the book)--and how that impacts her view of herself, relationship with others, and need to accomplish things (and do them perfectly!). Dr. Leman gives firstborns tips for using their natural-born leadership tendencies to its greatest advantage in relationships, at home, at school, and at work.
If you are a firstborn, are married to a firstborn, have a firstborn sibling, or simply know a firstborn, this book is a must-read. You will gain a wealth of wisdom and insight. And if you ARE a firstborn, you definitely must read this...if for no other reason, to learn to cut yourself some slack!

The hayride...that's Hubby driving the tractor.
Little Man playing on Grandma's porch.
Little Miss...all bundled upNow, let the Christmas festivities officially begin!