40: My Blessed Life

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Well, this is it, my last 40-B4-40 post. Thank you for sharing the journey with me.

I made it to my fourth decade, and looking back, I have realized how incredibly blessed I am. I would love to share with you just a few (40, to be exact) of the many blessings in my life:

1. The Creator of the universe loves me and has a great plan for me.
2. I get to do life with my best friend.
3. We will celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary next month.
4. I have an amazing daughter who is kind, thoughtful, and so very creative!
5. I have a wonderful son who is sweet and energetic and keeps me laughing!
6. My parents are now 40+ years in love and a great example of a godly marriage.
7. I have my dad's love for books and knowledge.
8. I have my mom's love for people and chocolate.
9. My sisters are two of my dearest friends (and are the only ones who truly understand how "unique" our family is!)
10. My two brothers-in-law (on my side) cherish my sisters and respect our parents.
11. My father- and mother-in-law are are also 40+ years in love.
12. I have been "thoroughly adopted" into my husband's family...parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins...etc. It's like I have an entire "second" family!
13. I have a very close (somewhat crazy) extended family whom I am blessed to see regularly.
14. I have three adorable nieces and three amazing nephews.
15. I was able to witness my nephew's miraculous journey of healing.
16. I still keep in touch with a lifelong family friend who consistently encourages me across the miles (and whose blog name I "borrowed" for this post...thanks, Lora! :))
17. I have an incredibly supportive group of friends.
18. We are blessed to go to a church where we are fed truth, challenged to grow, and enjoy community like nowhere else!
19. We have the best small group in the northern hemisphere (I really don't know much about the southern hemisphere...they might be the best there, too).
20. The same loyal, somewhat-spoiled dog has slept next to my bed every night for the last 11 years.
21. We live in a fantastic, family-centered community!
22. Our kids go to good schools where its evident the staff and administration care deeply about the students.
23. I am privileged to do what I love: 1) stay home to raise my kids and 2) write.
24. God has been faithful in the good times and the difficult times.
25. I have survived cancer.
26. God has given us our dream home.
27. At age 40, I weigh 30 lbs less than I did at age 20 (yes, it's true!)
28. At age 20, I could barely run .5 mile; two weeks ago I completed my third 5K!
29. I have two strong legs on which to run.
30. I have been privileged to meet, serve under, and be influenced by some amazing people.
31. I have had the privilege of serving and leading some pretty incredible kids who have grown into such impressive adults. (You know who you are, Reality Drama!)
32. I have co-authored a book.
33. I have had the opportunity to travel to 35 states and 4 other countries.
34. I have been to the top of the Eiffel Tower.
35. I have hiked a mountain in Alaska.
36. I have a college degree.
37. It's almost my absolute favorite time of year...FALL!
38. I can read...and read...and read...and read...
39. I am living exactly where I want to be, doing exactly what I want to do at this season in my life.
40. The next 10 years are looking pretty exciting!

A Lego Party for My Little Man!

I can't believe my Little Man turned 5 on Wednesday! We celebrated last Saturday with a birthday party brimming with his favorite toys...LEGOs!!!

 

This party was so easy, and so much fun, I'd do it again every year!!

 

The decorations were simple and easy to make.

 

 

The games were fun, too, like the Lego Build Challenge

 

They really got into that!

 

There were even, real, live judges the kids had to present their Lego masterpieces to.

 

They even got to build their own snacks...just like Legos!

 

Of course, what's a party without a pinata?

 

  And then there were the presents: Lego set...

 

after Lego set...

 

 after Lego set.

 

Nine sets in all...plus birthday money to spend on, guess what? Yep, more Legos!

 

 And a couple of non-Lego gifts that were a hit, too.

Grandma & Grandpa came down for the party, too. That was a special treat!

 

 

Now, let the building begin!

Happy Birthday, Little Man!!

 

 

40-B4-40: Dead End or New Beginning?

 

**40-B4-40 is my 8-month journey in bidding adieu to my youth and embracing

the next chapter (a.k.a. decade). Thanks for joining me!**

 

 

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You know that scene in the movie When Harry Met Sally (don't judge me, it was the 80s, alright?) when Sally has just broken up with her long term boyfriend and Harry comes to console her? The one where she lists all the things that are wrong in her life through sobs and sniffles then ends with, "And I'm going to be 40!"

 

And Harry says, "When?"

 

And Sally says, "Someday! But it's just hanging out there like a big dead end!"

 

That scene was hilarious when I was 17...and 25...and even funnier when I was 35. But now that I'm 2 days from the big event, it's not so funny.

 

Yes, I know it's just a number.

 

Yes, I know you're only as old as you feel.

 

Yes, I know "40 is the new 30" (whatever that really means)

 

Yes, I know "40 is fabulous" (it is...on everyone else, but that doesn't mean it will be on me, does it?)

 

And yes, I've had several friends who have already "crossed over" and have done so with grace, dignity, and even enthusiasm. They've not only lived to tell about it, they've embraced it beautifully and have thrived in doing so.

 

I really didn't expect to feel this way about turning 40. I had no problem with 30 or 35, and I truly thought 40 would be the same. I started this year ready to meet 40 with my head held high. Alas, it isn't really working out that way.

 

Oh, it's not terrible. I'm not in depression or anything. I won't wear all black on Sunday in protest. I'm just having a difficult time because things aren't quite working out as I had planned (remember my perfectionism?): I had wanted to be a certain weight. I had wanted to have my career at a certain point. I had wanted to my health to be at a certain place...all by the time I was 40.

 

Yes, I can still do all of those things when I'm 40, or 41, or 45, or 50...you get the idea.

 

No, 40 is not a dead end.

 

In many ways, I see it as a new beginning: a new chapter of my life, a fresh, new decade to achieve new goals and try new things.

 

That's why on Sunday, I will post a retrospective of my many blessings at 40.

 

But today is not Sunday; today is Friday, and right now, I need to find some chocolate.